Friday, December 7, 2007

Our Worth

A friend sent this to me and I loved it. It reminded me to remember that I am special, you are special, we are perfect even with all our flaws. Happy Friday.

One Flaw in Women

By the time the Lord made woman,
He was into his sixth day of working overtime.
An angel appeared and said,
"Why are you spending so much time on this one?"
And the Lord answered, "Have you seen my spec sheet on her?
She has to be completely washable, but not plastic,
Have over 200 movable parts, all replaceable
And able to run on diet coke and leftovers,
Have a lap that can hold four children at one time,
Have a kiss that can cure anything from a scraped knee to a broken heart
-and she will do everything
With only two hands."

The angel was astounded at the requirements.

"Only two hands!? No way!
And that's just on the standard model ?
That's too much work for one day.
Wait until tomorrow to finish."

"But I won't," the Lord protested.

"I am so close to finishing this creation that is so close to my own heart.
She already heals herself when she is sick
AND can work 18 hour days."

The angel moved closer and touched the woman.

"But you have made her so soft, Lord."

"She is soft," the Lord agreed,

"but I have also made her tough.
You have no idea what she can endure or accomplish."

"Will she be able to think?", asked the angel.


The Lord replied,

"Not only will she be able to think,
She will be able to reason and negotiate."

The angel then noticed something,

And reaching out, touched the woman's cheek.
"Oops, it looks like you have a leak in this model.
I told you that you were trying to put too much into this one."

"That's not a leak,"

The Lord corrected, "that's a tear!"
"What's the tear for?" the angel asked.

The Lord said, "The tear is her way of express ing her joy,

Her sorrow, her pain, her disappointment, her love,
Her loneliness, her grief and her pride."
The angel was impressed.
"You are a genius, Lord.
You thought of everything!
Woman is truly amazing."

And she is!

Women have strengths that amaze men.
They bear hardships and they carry burdens,
But they hold happiness,
Love and joy.
They smile when they want to scream.
They sing when they want to cry.
They cry when they are happy
And laugh when they are nervous.
They fight for what they believe in.
They stand up to injustice.
They don't take "no" for an answer
When they believe there is a better solution.
They go without so their family can have.
They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel
And cheer when their friends get awards.
They are happy when they hear about
A birth or a wedding.
Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They grieve at the loss of a fami ly member,
Yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left.
They know that a hug and a kiss
Can heal a broken heart.
Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.
They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you
To show how much they care about you.
The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning.
They bring joy, hope and love.
They have compassion and ideals.
They give moral support to their family and friends.
Women have vital things to say and everything to give .

HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE FLAW IN WOMEN,
IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH.

Wednesday, November 21, 2007

Magic Branding

In the past, I have found it difficult to articulate the answer to the question, "What is a Magic Party?" Aside from saying, it's a community of women who meet for the purpose of supporting each other, which doesn't really describe what happens or sound all that powerful, my friend Mara encouraged me to write a branding statement and suggested it would help the website designer as we are re-doing our Magic Party website. Well, there's nothing like designing a new website to help one get clearer and clearer about their message. (Oh and by the way, if you know a web designer that has a good understanding of branding as it is applied to website design, who can build an e-store, blog and knows the publishing tools needed to build an e-community please have them contact me.)

So, I thought I'd try out my new Magic Party statement here in the blog.

Magic Parties™ is an ever expanding community of women reaching around the globe who inspire and support each other to dream, grow and leave their own unique imprint on the universe for all time. One girlfriend at a time. Each vision magnified by the others. And of course, a little bit of chocolate makes the journey just a bit sweeter and a lot more fun!

I like it. What do you think?


Thursday, November 15, 2007

Head and Heart at Work

Yesterday I flew to Chicago to deliver a leadership workshop for my Vision Quest Consulting (VQC) business. Today I find myself mixing my day with VQC business and Magic Party business. This afternoon we have our first Magic Faculty conference call where 6 faculty (individual healers and teachers who have or will work with our community by presenting a piece of work that furthers the hearts and soul work of our members) I will discuss what's happening at Magic Parties and create together what's next regarding faculty participation.

What's interesting is that my head is full with growing my consulting business as I am very much engaged in developing new VQC clients, delivering to current clients and even looking to expand further and bring on a second lieutenant, (do you know someone who might be interested?) to help me grow the VQC business and run a piece of it. And at the same time, my heart is full with the work required to grow and expand Magic Parties. What I notice today is that my head and heart are engaged fully with my two work venues. And I am grateful to have all of me show up at my work and that I do not have to leave a part of me on hold while I go to work everyday. In David Whyte's book, "Crossing the Unknown Sea; Work as a Pilgrimage of Identity", he talks about leaving our soul at the door everyday we go to work. I have not wanted a work life that feels like I am leaving my soul at the door. And am glad I am finding a way to speak to my head and my heart through and with my work. "The day may be full, we may be incredibly busy, but we have forgotten who is busy and why we are busy. We lose the conversation, we lose our calling....we have to realize that our lives are at stake, the one unique life, entirely our own, it is possible for each of us to live."

Are your days too busy that you also feel like you have lost your calling? And if so, if David Whyte is right and your life is at stake, what will you do about it?

Monday, November 12, 2007

The After November 10th Party

The Party this past Saturday was amazing. Our theme was "our journeys". We started the after noon talking about how each woman's journey is unique....all her own....designed just for her... Here is the bottom line or focus about walking on our journey.....on our path in this world. No woman travels the same path as another. We stand alone, making our way in the world the best we know how. As alone as we are, we can walk together, holding hands and holding each other's hearts; walking alone on our own journey, yet together with the sisters of our hears, our girlfriends!

Jen Cohen, our presenter, did an amazing job helping us to explore our paths, our stories, our journeys through poetry. We read poetry and then we talked about it's meaning in our lives by either writing our own poem or just writing what came to our heart and mind. It was an inspiring afternoon. Here is a poem she shared with us that really inspired me.

When death comes

(by Mary Oliver)

When death comes

like the hungry bear in autumn;

when death comes and takes all the bright coins from his purse


to buy me, and snaps the purse shut;

when death comes like the measle-pox;


when death comes

like an iceberg between the shoulder blades,


I want to step through the door full of curiosity, wondering;

what is it going to be like, that cottage of darkness?


And therefore I look upon everything

as a brotherhood and sisterhood,


and I look upon time as no more than an idea,

and I consider eternity as another possibility,


and I think of each life as a flower, as common

as the field daisy, and as singular,


and each name a comfortable music in the mouth,

tending, as all music does, toward silence,


and each body a lion of courage, and something

precious to the earth.


When it's over, I want to say: all my life

I was a bride married to amazement.

I was the bridegroom taking the world into my arms.

When it's over, I don't want to wonder

if I have made of my life something particular, and real.

I don't want to find myself sighing and frightened

or full of argument.


I don't want to end up simply having visited this world.

Tuesday, November 6, 2007

Getting Ready for the Magic Party

The next Magic Party is just days away. There is something magical stirring in the air as each Magic Party approaches. I have started to feel the excitement building the last few days and this excitement helps to guide me towards creating just the right party. This particular Magic Party has a theme of women's journeys...women's stories. I believe that women are meant to share their stories to inspire and heal other women. A sisterhood of support throughout the world.

Over the last few months I have been writing the stories from my life that frame my own individual journey. My stories that have created the woman I am today. I imagine these stories will be part of a book I am writing called "The Magic Party Manual...For the Everyday Woman Who Wants a Little Magic in her Life". I will read one of these stories at this next Magic Party. And my friend Jen Cohen who is a teacher, healer, and spirit guide will be our guest presenter who will also do work with us on our stories and what stops us from being brave and courageous in life.

I know I'm not objective, but this should be an amazing, life changing (in a good way) Magic Party.

Saturday, July 21, 2007

Magic Party Lake Winnesquam Retreat

July 13, 2007. See our retreat up close and personal! We are women supporting each other to live into our fullest potential. We are making our dreams a reality now.

Dear Magic Guests,

Ubuntu, which in loose translation means I am because we are.

Thank you to each and every one of you for making last week's Magic Party, well, magical!

Thank you for coming all the way to the lake.

Thank you Anna for your music that blessed us and forever changed our lives.

Thank you for your contributions.

Thank you for your sharing of stories.

Thank you for the nourishment you brought.

Thank you for your help in the kitchen.

Thank you for cleaning up.

Thank you for your spirit.

Thank you for your love of sisterhood, spirit and a little chocolate.

Thank you for being the perfect woman, right now, today in all your glory.

Thank you for being part of the tapestry of each other's lives.

Thank you for your support, love and friendship.

Thank you for being part of The Magic Party community.

Ubuntu. I am because we are.

With love,

Wendy

The Magic Girl

+1 978-692-4454 phone

wcapland@themagicparties.com

www.themagicparties.com

Sunday, April 8, 2007

How Magic Parties Began in the Fall of 2006

Back in the early spring, I twisted my ankle jogging. It was a stupid accident; I wasn’t looking where I was going, and my ankle just turned over. In June, the darn thing still hurt and didn’t seem to be getting any better, so I finally went to a podiatrist who confirmed I twisted it and assured me it would eventually heal completely. By September with still too much pain for something I had done 5 months earlier and now feeling even more aggravated because I hadn’t been able to exercise fully for way too many months, I went to see my friend, Melanie. Although Melanie’s training background is in physical therapy, she is a healer who uses many energy healing modalities, like Reiki and Cranial Sacral Therapy. To be honest, I’m not sure exactly what Melanie does or how she does it, but it always seems to work, and why I wait to go to see her until I am desperate is pretty foolish on my part since she is truly gifted.

Melanie confirmed the podiatrist’s twisted ligament diagnosis and said she thought she could help. So I hopped up on the table to await her hands manipulating my ankle in some way to make it all better. I was surprised that instead of her being at the bottom of the table working on my ankle, she sat next to the side of the table and told me to close my eyes and relax. She then put one hand under the small of my back and the other and under the back of my neck. Although I said nothing, I was wondering what she was doing but learned a long time ago that whatever she did worked no matter how unusual or unexpected it seemed at the moment.

With both of our eyes closed, Melanie started talking quietly to me as I began to sink into a dream like state. She then said she saw me at the ocean. I immediately conjured up a picture of the ocean in Negril, Jamaica, where my husband and I went on our first vacation together. She said, waiting for me in the ocean was a group of dolphins. She suggested that in my mind’s eye, I jump into the water with the dolphins, grab onto one of their dorsal fins and go for a ride. I cannot remember anything else Melanie said to me, and completely forgot I was there to fix my ankle, and instead was transported into a wonderland dream, swimming in the warm water with the dolphins in Jamaica.

The dolphins took me to an underground cave. We swam inside together. The inside of the cave was filled with aquamarine blue crystals, bright blue sparkling like diamonds on the ceiling, on the walls, on the cave floor. The entire cave was filled with this glittering crystal like image. At the back of the cave was a beautiful blond mermaid, beckoning me. As I swam closer, the mermaid asked me if there was something I wanted to know. I immediately replied that I wanted to see what my life purpose was and how I was suppose to manifest it, or what I was suppose to do with it. I had been wondering and asking myself this question now for about 6 months maybe longer without a clear answer. I was excited that this mermaid seemed to know things and I had a strong feeling she had THE ANSWER.

Instead of speaking, she magically pulled out a projection screen which she unrolled like a scroll and told me to watch the movie on the screen. The movie she said, would give me the answer I was looking for. I kept looking and looking at the screen certain there must be something to see, but it remained blank. Finally, frustrated, I blurted out, “The screen is blank, there’s nothing on it.” And wondered why she would show me a blank screen. There must be some mistake. She replied, “The screen is blank because you have to create the image yourself, no one can give it to you as it’s your to create.” I thought, oh great, out of all the mermaids, I had to find one that was into riddles. Knowing that these things sometimes work out, I gave her reply another chance and asked her for a hint since I was having a hard time knowing what I was suppose to create and struggling over the question of life purpose. She obliged. Immediately, up on the screen popped a picture of my living room filled with people I knew, sitting, talking, laughing, and creating something together. I couldn’t see what we were doing exactly but I had seen this picture a few times before in my dreams and it was definitely familiar and comforting. I told the mermaid that there must be some mistake because this couldn’t possibly be IT, the big life purpose..in my living room?…with my friends? Her answer made me laugh. She said, “We (who’s we I wondered?) have shown you this picture many times before but you keep ignoring it. How many more times will you need to see it before you just get going and do it?” Do what? I asked? Have a party in my living room with friends? But what for? What will we do? She replied, “You’ll figure it out using your greatest gifts, your gifts of creating magic and healing others”.

And thus, The Magic Party began.

On one level this mermaid dream and message is very confusing and I have no real idea of what to do. On the other hand, pieces seem to be falling magically into place even though it doesn’t make any sense and I don’t know what I am doing. When I woke up from my dream on Melanie’s table, I told her about the mermaid, her message and the party idea. I hesitantly asked Melanie if she would come to a party, if I were to have one. She asked, ”What kind of a party? Before I could give it a second thought I blurted out, “A magic party” somehow certain I knew what I was talking about. She giggled and said, “Oooh, I can’t wait”. Which seems to be the response I am getting from everyone I have invited. When asked, what’s a magic party? I have no answer yet that makes sense. I wish I had thought to ask the mermaid. I have fumbled with, I’m not exactly sure, but the mermaid told me to do it so I am. Or…..I think it has something to do with our collective gifts and talents…and I guess we’ll all find out together”.

Why I think I can have this gathering and not know what to do once people get here is beyond my comprehension. I have a strong intuition though, it will be revealed to me at the perfect time. I am hoping the perfect time will be before my guests go home on party night.

I have asked each guest to bring with them, their greatest talent in the world, the one thing that makes them special and unique and be willing to share it. And bring an obstacle or challenge that they are ready to get rid of. I’m not sure what we will do with these two things, but I know these are the perfect things for them to bring. I wish I had a bit more clarity about the details as the party is just days away.

I have a feeling that the magic is already working since I decided on having this soiree. I can’t put my finger on anything specific but the energetic world around me has been buzzing for days. Every time I talk to one of my guests it’s as if electricity currents are passing between us. I can feel it. I don’t know what it is or what’s happening, but whatever it is I hope it’s awesome and life changing for all of us. It feels like it might be. I can’t wait to see what happens. Shouldn’t I know more since I’m the hostess and facilitator of the evening? Clearly NOT, since I remain virtually clueless of any details. I too will experience the magic of whatever will happen next Sunday nite. I know intuitively that this living room party with close friends and my hubby is the beginning of something bigger…maybe even my life purpose. I cannot wait!

Oh, and by the way, my ankle after being in pain for six months hasn’t hurt me, not even once, since I left Melanie’s house that afternoon. I wonder what the heck dolphins and a mermaid had to do with the healing of my ankle. Oh well, just another bit of universal magic.

with love,

The Magic Girl, Wendy